Sunday, October 09, 2005

Goofball Sighting

I saw Goofball last night with his date at the movies. I was actually sitting just a few seats behind him, but I’m not sure he saw me and I didn’t greet him. He was on a date with a much shorter (he’s really tall) brunette. He had his arm around her during the movie and helped her put on her jacket after the movie. Watching him treat this other girl so warmly was really rather off-putting. Just a few days ago, he asked Kristin to go home with him. He practically begged her to go home with him. And now here he was holding this other girl’s hand. I know that he was just on a date, I know that he has no commitment to this girl, but still I couldn’t help but feel a tinge of anger and disgust.

13 Comments:

At 10/09/2005 7:39 PM, Blogger Kim said...

omg! that is crazy. i feel like goofball has so much growing up to do. he seems to be so unsure of himself and just reckless

 
At 10/09/2005 7:54 PM, Blogger -- said...

Great. This girl gets a date, and I just get asked to go home with him. WTF? Do I come off as a total slut ho-bag or something?
(Readers who do not know me in person: I'm sure I come off as a slut ho-bag on the blog, but I do not think I do in person.)

Whatever. I'm glad I have spies all over the city for me! But I can't be too mad, I usu. date 2-3 guys at the same time, to take the edge off, so I can't judge him for dating someone else. I guess it just annoys me that he's clearly capable of NOT being a dick, just not with me. I am a magnet for bad boy behavior.

On some level, though, he reminds me of Spoon, or Jersey Shore Boy's old best friend. Like any girl will do, y'kno? First it was Kim, then me, now some other chick. Doesn't exactly make me feel great....

Question: Was she pretty?

 
At 10/10/2005 8:05 AM, Blogger FUNKYBROWNCHICK said...

"Question: Was she pretty?"

FUNNY! That's the exact same question I would have asked if I were in the same situation. :)

Stolie

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At 10/10/2005 9:33 AM, Blogger Sarah said...

She was pretty.

 
At 10/10/2005 12:27 PM, Blogger Anonymous City Girl said...

Well the judgement on GoofBall is a little harsh... I could be wrong (cause I am just too lazy to go back and check the past posts), but wasn't one of you dating a few guys at once (which is not a judgement call), and while not exclusive or serious about any of them, gave him a no strings blow job... again, no biggie, but why is GoofBall gentlemanly behavior with this woman so bad?

 
At 10/10/2005 12:34 PM, Blogger -- said...

Hey city girl,

I agree, I can't judge him for dating someone else. I think my 1st comment sums it up. He must think I'm a total slut/whore.

Basically it's me being pathetic. "Why doesn't he want to date MEEEEEE?" (Not that I'm that into him or anything. But we all want every man to be madly in love with us at all times.)

 
At 10/10/2005 12:43 PM, Blogger Anonymous City Girl said...

Maybe he didn't even want to try for more than taking a stab in the dark at a one night stand with you cause your body language and stuff made it obvious you weren't intrested in him as a dateable prospect (like you said you weren't)... so he just figured, what do I have to lose.
And also, from what I gather, GoofBall may be a bit of a fish out of water in group social thangs.
Who knows what would have happened once you two were alone... he might have surprised you, let the male vabrato fall away and you would have met the gentleman GoofBall he was at the movies the other night. A lot of guys are one way in a group setting and totally different one on one.
If you are curious about GoofBall now, call him... what can it hurt?
Just be sure what you do want and don't just want it now that someone else has it. ;-)

 
At 10/10/2005 1:34 PM, Blogger Cynthia said...

In Goofball defense, he probably wasn't intoxicated when you saw him at the movies. Drinking makes him act like a freaky ass sometimes. Princeton Lawyer and I have decided that we want to go out with Goodball to talk to him about the problems with his behavior. He needs to learn how to treat good women or else, he'll always be with the awful women he's been dating for years.

I would also bet that he met this particular woman on the Internet. He's been ding this Internet dating thing for awhile and it hasn't been going especially well so I'm sure he was trying to especially hard to impress her.

 
At 10/10/2005 10:50 PM, Blogger Damn It Anyway said...

Damn i gotta try online dating again

 
At 10/11/2005 8:07 AM, Blogger ThreeCharlie said...

Kristin - If it's any consolation next time I'm in the city I'll take you out.

 
At 10/11/2005 11:19 AM, Blogger -- said...

Awh, thanks threecharlie...

 
At 10/11/2005 9:26 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

maybe you just dress like a whore Kristen

 
At 10/12/2005 10:42 AM, Blogger ThreeCharlie said...

Don't be a dick dude.

 

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